What Can One Mom Do? Help Reach A High School for Christ

  • by Nick DeCola

Wendy Gasterland will always remember that Sunday at church.

A mom to two high school girls, she witnessed the changed lives of high school students as they shared about leading their classmates to Christ at an outreach called “My Story” at Eden Prairie High School.

She wanted to see such an impact at her local high school in Chaska, MN, located in the southwestern suburbs of the Twin Cities.  

But she was just one mom. Could she really make it happen?

Not on her own.

Wendy and her daughter Rachel.

Wendy’s daughter Rachel had started a Cru ministry at Chaska High from a Bible study she was leading on campus. Fueled by their vision to reach the entire school, Wendy and Rachel began seeking coaching and resources to pull off the “My Story” outreach. It included a local hip hop band, college athletes and select high schoolers sharing their faith story with their classmates in the school’s theater.

Wendy often felt under-equipped and unsure of what to do next. What she did know was that she needed help, so she sought coaching and support from Jackie Price, a mentor and coach with Cru’s high school ministry. Wendy also used resources already created by her church, which had successfully sponsored “My Story” events at 3 other schools. Fellowship of Christian Athletes at their school also agreed to partner with them.  

Wendy served alongside of the students, soliciting the support of the principal and other community leaders. She opened her home to host student planning meetings. Wendy’s church and a teacher sponsor provided key leadership with planning, finances and connecting with local contacts. Another local church provided pizza for an “after party”.  

Wendy would be the first to tell you that her primary contribution was behind the scenes. “We could not have done this without all four of these components,” said Wendy, referring to the partnership between FCA, Cru and two local churches.    

The night of the event, 500 students attended, and 50 indicated that they placed their trust in Christ. Yet Wendy said the impact far surpasses those numbers.

“What happened to the kids who planned the event was life changing,” said Wendy. “The student leaders from FCA and Cru worked together toward the common goal of reaching people for the Lord.”  

“These kids will never be the same,” says Jackie, Wendy’s coach. “One parent came to me afterward and said, ‘I’d like to do something in the junior high.’  

Wendy now sees herself as someone who can lead and coach others. “I hope to be able to help other Cru groups pull off a ‘My Story’ event in their local high school.”

God gave Wendy a burden and a vision. As we walk with Him He does that for all of us. For Wendy, to act on that vision it meant taking some simple steps.

  1. Pay attention to what God is placing on your heart. Where has He uniquely placed you in your family, with your neighbors, at work, in your community? Trust that the burden He is giving you is real and tell some trusted friends about it.
  2. Find others to help you. Who can help you with taking a step toward reaching out with the vision God has given you?  Who can pray with you, offer specific resources, offer coaching? Wendy reached out to both Cru and her church for the resources she needed. Contact Cru to help you:

    1. In cities and communities
    2. At a local high school
    3. At a local college campus

  3. Seek people who might PARTNER with you. Different than just offering resources, these are people, churches or organization who share the burden and take responsibility with you for seeing fruitfulness. They are like-minded in their intent to reach others with little regard for who gets the credit.